Panic!

Diego enjoying the fall Colors

Charlie enjoying a bolivian saltena! 

Last week was comical (read: bad) and reflective of how forgetful I am these days.  I had planned to go to Chicago for work on Thursday – I had asked Sandra to work late, warned Carlos that he would be on duty and told everyone at school/work that I would be out on Thursday.  Tuesday night at 6pm I got a random email asking if I could meet for breakfast before the Chicago meeting on WEDNESDAY. WEDNESDAY?!?!?  Turns out the work trip was scheduled for the next day, not Thursday.  Diego, who takes every inopportune moment to poo publicly, decided at that very moment he needed to poo.  So there I was - waiting for Charlie’s piano class to finish, wiping poo and trying to soothe a grumpy baby all while panicking about a 6am flight from BWI.  I got up at 3:45am the next day to nurse Sofia, pump and get out the door by 4:20am.  Somewhere between DC and Chicago my breast pump BROKE.  I bought new batteries at an airport shop which cost a small fortune….but it still didn’t work.  The prospect of no breastpump for an entire day just about push me over the edge.  I used my phone to buy a handpump from a walmart close by and then talked someone who was local into going to pick it up at the store for me.  It goes without say that my flight back was exceedingly delayed so I didn't get home until midnight.  Just about the only thing that went right during the course of the day was the fact that I arrived on time to the meeting.  Had it not been for that random email I would have slept until 7:30 and totally missed the meeting...

Fortunately we did have a good past weekend.  Charlie had his first pseudo piano recital.  Here he is playing twinkle twinkle little star....a little slow, but not bad...http://youtu.be/QrXR_BaACCE  

Sofia and I went up to Philadelphia for my mom’s birthday and store holiday open house.  The store looks awesome and it was really fun to see people at the opening.  Soogy made up for us slacking by cooking up a feast afterwards. 

 

Sofia continues to be a total joy  (until 5pm rolls around and she is hungry and tired); Diego continues to have fits of seemingly middle child syndrome; Charlie continues to be doing well, but he is starting to prefer that I leave him be with his friends L.  I went to watch his soccer practice and he told me to leave and come back when it was over.  I almost cried. The other day he spent the entire day at his friend's house.  When Wade's mom asked if he wanted to go home for dinner, Charlie said no, so she had us all come over for dinner.  I really like Wade - hard to find 5 year old boys who are sweet, but Wade is definitely one of them.  When I arrived, they were reading books together.

Charlie has taken up capoeria!

Winter :(

Winter just began and I am already ready for spring! With the kids it is tough to be stuck inside and have it get dark so early.  So far I've just been in denial and let the kids continue to play outside.  Yesterday after school it was so cold that Sofia and I sat in the car watching Charlie and Diego through the fence play kickball on the blacktop.  Needless to say, everyone has a runny nose around here.

Fortunately this past weekend was super nice. We did the usual sports on Saturday and on Sunday Carlos took care of ALL of the kids so I could run a 10k.  Everyone survived.  Carlos wasn't in a great mood when I got home, but in much less of a bad mood than I expected so I'm already planning the next one.



Diego and I went to run around the gardens at the Hillwood Estate while Charlie went on his first movie date with Cici.

By Sunday afternoon Diego was so tired and grumpy that when we got home from a bike ride, he went upstairs and crashed on the bed with his helmet and shoes on.  Poor kid.  He slept from 5:45pm to 7am!  I did manage to take off the helmet and shoes.

Sofia still doesn't have any teeth, but she wants to be a big kid and catch up with her brothers!  She loves to try to walk around, but shows no interest in crawling.   She is super sweet and is slowly getting back to her normal routine of waking up once a night.  For the last few weeks she has been getting up a lot during the night.  Here she is laughing when I tickle her. 

Halloween and Work trip

Despite my best efforts to come up with interesting costume ideas, the boys just wanted to be batman and superman.  They didn't even want anything home-made (I guess my kermit pants really traumatized charlie last year) - just plain superhero costumes from the store.  Although disappointed, I was still sad to miss out on my favorite holiday.  Luckily we did get dressed up to go trick-or-treating at the zoo before my work trip.  It was fun, but a bit strange.  Charlie wanted to hit every possible stand to collect goodies, but Diego was mainly just interested in the stand giving out cheddar cheese and the merry-go-round.

Ry's birthday included live animals AND a fire truck!!

Carlos said they loved Halloween. East Capitol didn't disappoint and then they came home to give out candy.  Charlie said he liked giving out candy even more than trick-or-treating.   I guess they stayed up until 9:45pm giving out candy to whoever was random enough to come over here - usually teenagers with little to no costume.

The week seemed to be pretty long for Carlos, Sandra and my mom - who came in to help out.  The first night Sofia had a fever and didn't sleep much, Diego woke up with nightmares and Charlie wet the bed.   Monday I got a call from Diego's teacher saying that he had a major accident during naptime.....It seemed to only get marginally better from there.  On my end the trip was okay, but the way back felt like an eternity...when I got off the plane in Dulles I almost cried when I had to wait in that crappy tram and then I really almost cried when the passport line was longer than anyone had ever seen (took 1.5 hrs to get through) and then I REALLY almost lost it when some girl puked in the passport line so we waited while vomit fumes filled the air and then I literally starting to lose it when the customs line wrapped around various baggage claim areas.  I hate Dulles airport.

Actually the whole trip felt really long.  I had to leave on Sunday evening and didn't get back until Friday night.  I got to walk around Prague on Monday afternoon and see a friend I haven't seen in almost 20 years!  Crazy.  Despite the fact that the year and two summers I spent in the Czech Republic were formative experiences, I wasn't really nostalgic being there.  When I was in the Czech Republic 5 years after the velvet revolution, the Charles Bridge was lined with Czech teenagers strumming Beatles songs and desperately trying to conjure up the 1960s; the expats were all trying to "find" themselves by writing their first novel.  Nowadays, the hippies are gone; the Bridge is lined with tourist trap souvenir stands and the sea of tourists overwhelms any sign of a probably huge expat community.  oh well.  Tuesday-Thursday was in Plzen at a meeting hosted at the brewery where Pilsner Urquell is made.  The brewery complex is pretty cool - especially the fact that there are 9 kilometers of hand-dug tunnels which were used to keep the beer cool!  We were treated to dinner in a private dining space in the tunnels.  The fact that only a large pig was served was the least of my concerns - I'm so claustrophobic that spending 2+ hours in a deep underground cavern was almost more than I could handle.  Even the huge copper containers filled with beer couldn't help.  The highlight of the trip for me was spending my last evening back in Prague with one of my host sisters from when I was an exchange student in Olomouc.  I went to her wedding 8 years ago, but haven't seen her since.  It was so nice to meet her kids, spend time with her and skype with her parents!    However, spending time with Sylva and her family made me really happy.  She has a daughter, Amalka, the same age as Charlie and I hope that they will become friends and that she will come spend time with us here.

the beer tunnels

ahhh! beer and czech food!

my host sister and her two kids!

Getting Ready for Halloween

We had a very full and spooky weekend, which makes me slightly less sad about missing my favorite holiday due to a work trip next week.  We decorated the front yard, carved pumpkins early and Charlie and Carlos did a race in the cemetery.  Charlie was super excited about his race which wound around a block of graves while music thumped and creepy costumes surrounded us.  It was pretty comical, but he loved it and Diego says he is building up enough courage to do it next year.  It took Diego about an hour to agree to go talk to this woman on stilts....Can't say I blame him...I was so proud of Charlie for running the whole way and he was so pleased with himself for "beating" his father.


Not surprisingly Charlie and Cici settled on the same pumpkin design, while Diego requested Batman.  I am hoping that by next year Charlie should be able to mostly carve by himself. Both Charlie and Diego loved the activity which, of course, makes me very happy.

Sunday afternoon we went to see the Georgetown women's soccer team play. I'm trying to make sure the boys realize girls can kick butt on the field too.  It was super fun and there is a turf field next door where we played during half-time.  But it is tough to compete with the Nats stadium experience.  After the game Charlie expressed general approval, but also general disappointment that there were no hot dogs or cotton candy.

Last week I went on a field trip with Diego's class.  It was the first time I got to see him interact with his friends.  He seems to really enjoy them - especially Noah (who looks oddly similar to him), Aubrey (whose parents are deaf) and Rileigh (whose parents have raised 4 biological and 12 other kids - but who is counting!).  Nevertheless, as soon as I left after the field trip Diego started crying again.  It's so sad.  The teacher said he is usually fine after a few minutes in school, but recess is also tough.  I guess he gets to see Charlie for 10 minutes and then Charlie has to go back inside and Diego gets sad.

To go along with my parental outsourcing theme I have started making Charlie read to Sofia.  He doesn't appreciate how squirmy she is, but I think it's good for both of them.

Around the Bases!

We took the kids to hear salsa music at the Kennedy Center on Friday.  Diego was the most willing to get on the dance floor  while Charlie and Cici could only be convinced to stand on the dance floor.  I sure hope that changes. Charlie and Diego need to learn to salsa before it is too late and their hips move like gringos!

I took the kids to Philly this weekend to escape the rain.  All the museums here are closed due to the shutdown (as are playgrounds!) so it makes rainy days pretty tough!  The weather turned out to be great there so between grandma's toys and the Germantown Academy fields the kids had so much fun.  We visited my mom's store (http://curiophiladelphia.com) - which looks awesome - and Charlie and Diego love to use the typewriters she has on display.  I guess there is immediate gratification that comes with seeing the letters appear on a real piece of paper.  Nevertheless, they seem more adept at using the ipad...

We watched Germantown Academy's football game and then rushed the field to play kickball.  We played kickball, soccer, tennis, baseball, catch and ran around the track.  It was so awesome to have so many great facilities for them  to use.  It was especially fun to see them run the bases - it is a really long way around for their little legs!! Of course they always get a home run so after about 10 home runs they were ready to move on to the next sport.

Charlie has a little race this coming weekend so I wanted him to run a 1/4 mile to be familiar with the distance.  He ran twice around the track, but I only clocked it in once at 2:09.  Not bad.  My main goal is that he doesn't stop, but we'll see if he can improve that timing during the race.

Diego ran half way around and when I ran to cheer him on he fell on the ground and started crying.  I can almost make sense of that, but not quite.  One more Diego mystery.  Despite his recent attitude, Diego says some pretty amusing things these days.  There is a kid named Tate at school and Diego will only call him "Tape" despite Charlie's best efforts to reform him.  And when Carlos asked Diego how much he loved him, Diego responded "about 30 miles."  We told him that if he doesn't cry for a whole week at school, we will take him to Chuck E Cheese - so now he says "I'm not going to cry so we can go to cheddar cheese."

Sofia is a total joy.  She doesn't nap very well during the day, but has been sleeping pretty well at night.  She can sleep from 7pm to 6am if she wants to.  I'm trying to get her sleeping through the night before my upcoming work trip.  I'm super worried about being gone for a full week.  I just know she'll be out of sorts and wake up a lot and I'm paranoid about her not wanting to nurse when I get home.