Charlie enjoying a candle-lit dinner at his table

Diego at his 4 month doctor's visit

Charlie in Diego's crib!

Charlie is definitely ready for Christmas. Apparently Santa is getting him a car present. And when I asked Charlie what presents we should get for other people he did not hesitate one bit: "cars and trains." Cousin Wallis gets a "little car", tia Veronika gets a "train", tio Seth gets a "car" and Abuela and Grandma get a "huge car" and so on. I guess that makes Christmas shopping easy!
It seems that my sweet Charlie may have come back though he still often refuses his nap, is bossy and when tired he takes irrational behavior to a new level. But he is very affectionate and demands a kiss and a hug anytime we even climb the stairs. When I come down to visit on work days and then have to go back upstairs I need to ask his permission and reluctantly he'll say: "ok -mommy - you go work - you go have a call 'hello,hello, hello.'" I guess that's how he perceives my work - I spend the day on the phone saying hello....
Diego continues to be my bag of sugar. He had his 4 month appointment this week and is exactly average - he weighs 15 lbs 2 oz which is the 50th percentile. His height and head are also exactly 50th percentile! So much for my fat babies! Even though he is smaller than Charlie was he seems to be supporting my theory that 2nd babies are tougher than their first born siblings. He got 2 shots at his 4 month visit and didn't even cry. He did cry however when he got hit in the head by a flying bottle (which Charlie may have thrown....). His sleep seems to have regressed - he used to be waking up at 4:30-5:30am, but recently he is up and ready to cuddle at 1:30am. And he certainly needs to be put to sleep at 7-8pm. We found that out the hard way when we brought him to a Christmas party. He screamed bloody murder for 20 minutes out of exhaustion before collapsing asleep. Other than that he has taken to his index finger and finds peek-a-boo increasingly funny. He has no interest in rolling over or crawling. Here he is at his doctor's appointment.
I've been having flashes of life with Charlie in 10-15 years- it's like I can already imagine him as a teenager. Last weekend he went to his first CD "release party" - literally it was a release party for kids music in a black box theater - and I could imagine him going to concerts as a teenager. He wanted to get up and dance but wouldn't let loose so just swayed his hips - like he didn't think it was cool to dance too much. And then there is the way he wears his hats - he pulls them almost entirely over his eyes so he can barely see. What is that? Sounds like an obnoxious frat boy in math class! Here he is at the CD party